Parental Conflict
The nature of human relationships is that we will sometimes disagree. It's wonderful for children to see their parents model how to work out disagreements. It's important for them to know that we don't always agree, but we always love each other. Kids need to see us ask for what we need without attacking the other person. And it's critical for them to see us make up, with affection and forgiveness. But that doesn't mean that it's okay to yell at each other in front of our kids. The research shows that when parents disagree respectfully and then work things through to a solution and affectionately make up, kids learn valuable lessons about working through conflicts constructively. But the research also shows that yelling always affects kids badly. Yelling is not constructive conflict resolution. It's a tantrum. So how can you handle the inevitable disagreements that come up in a relationship – when you live with kids and want to be a good role model?
Start with one small, practical win.
Your FREE Family Screen Plan.
Screens are part of modern childhood — but without clear expectations they can easily lead to daily battles.
This practical guide helps you create a clear family plan for screens, including rules, conversations with your child, and transition routines that prevent meltdowns when screen time ends.